When profanity becomes accepted
In class five when we first
learnt the word “sperm”, not only did the students had a hearty and
uncontrollable laugh, but the teachers had a difficult time teaching that small
concept of fertilisation, that also in a cow.
In class eight, the chapter on
reproductive organs was taught in small groups. I was lucky to have a teacher
who first taught us why some babies become boys (XY chromosomes) and why some
become girls (XX chromosomes).
In class ten, my biology teacher
skipped teaching the reproductive chapter and made us underline in the textbook
the sentences that were important for exam.
In class twelve, my biology
teacher was an open minded being and he taught us the required bit in much
humour. Sperms coming to fertilise an egg was compared to an Olympic race where
only the best won the gold medal, and only the best sperm got to fertilise the
egg.
As we graduated from one year to
another in the medical school, we progress from reading the theories about sex
and sexuality in book to real sexual problems in the real world.
Problems with sexuality are a
real medical problem. While many become pregnant accidentally and unwanted,
there are many who try to conceive and have difficulty in making a baby. There exist
sexuality problems, both psychogenic and organic. The former occurs with regard
to the mind while the latter occurs with regard to problems or abnormalities in
reproductive organs.
While some become pregnant at
seventeen years and are many years younger than us, there are women in forties
who still wish to conceive babies. Some are on the verge of menopause and they
still want the last few remaining eggs to be fertilised and harbour a baby of
their own.
A woman who is gentle and tender
becomes strong in spirit and body after child birth. Child birth may be the
ultimate test of spirit, acceptance and dignity. Beyond that, a joke about
brinjals brings laughter than offense.
One doctor involved in bringing
out babies into the world is an obstetrician. It is widely known in the medial
community about the dirty mindedness or the likelihood of making sexuality
related jokes by the obstetricians.
Having worked under a senior
professor of obstetrician who is known for his jokes with profanity, I have
come all the way from giggling at the word “sperm” to accepting profanity. This
is a progress toward becoming a doctor than loss of innocence when you have
seen the exposed part of human existence coupled with “some imaginations”.
Written on the Pi day, 3.14 of
the year 2015. I was inspired to write this piece after our favourite Professor
CR at Obstetrics and Gynaecology department, University of Colombo.